self diagnosing is so hard because everytime you’re like “maybe I am mentally ill” theres also a big part of you going “nah you’re probably just a naturally lazy/nasty/disgusting/useless person trying to find an excuse for your behavior” because of the institutionalized ableism that runs through everything

So go to the doctor and get an actual diagnosis?

Why don’t poor people just buy more money?

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If you’re up at 4 a.m., you’re either thinking about your past, or worrying about your future. Both are equally as bad.

"She never looked nice. She looked like art, and art wasn’t supposed to look nice; it was supposed to make you feel something."
- Eleanor & Park, Rainbow Rowell  (via oddi-tea)

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"It’s been 370 days since I last saw you and nights like this are the worst. It’s been 370 days since I last saw you but when was the last time I told you that I loved you? It’s been 370 days since I last saw you but when was the last time I showed that I appreciated you? When was the last time I showed that I care? When was the last time that the last time was this very moment? It’s been 370 days since I last saw you, and nights like these are the worst. I miss you."
- The last time was too long

philuptran memoriesofjmc i miss you original writing

"My mother once said: Date a girl who makes your heart race louder than your car’s engine. Date a girl who knows how to tell you you’re wrong, and when to say it. Date a girl who wouldn’t mind spending all of Sunday afternoon napping, even if you snore louder than an angry elephant. Date a girl who dresses for her and only her, because you don’t know a damn thing about fashion. Date a girl who would eat ice cream on rainy days, just because you want to. Date a girl who is not only proud to be with you, but someone who is equally as embarrassed. Date a girl who gently heals your scars with gentle kisses and midnight giggles. And finally, date a girl who would someday take care of you when I’m gone."
- My Mother Once Said… (via philuptran)

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Some femmes are dominant and some butches are submissive. Some men have vaginas and some women have penises. Sometimes what you call a clit is called a dick by it’s owner, and sometimes a dick is really a clit. Some straight men want to be penetrated and some straight women want to do it. Sometimes people aren’t men or women at all and sometimes genitals aren’t a black and white issue. Sometimes people are different to you, and always, we need to accept this.

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